This is a short one, because my eyeballs have assumed the role of a slot machine, periodically rolling back into my head expecting to toss out a matching pair of cherries. I can’t seem to stay awake past 9.30 most nights. So, it being close to midnight means that I’m on the cusp of delirium.
Anyhoo. I’m here to confess. I saw something recently. Something that last year, I would have found offensive or alien. This year – just last week, in fact – I laughed out loud at this thing. It was a joke about drinking. Several jokes, in fact. Each one almost funnier than the other.
Understand this. When it comes to laughing at drinking, I am the last person to get the joke. Instead I feel somehow demeaned. Demeaned and excluded. And angry. By which I mean boiling with outrage. Incandescent with indignation. In other words, deeply hacked off.
So, what’s changed? Honestly? I don’t know. I still gag at the smell of beer and wine. I still steer clear of pubs. I’m still scornful of the grotesquely large proportion of popular culture that revolves around drinking alcohol and getting drunk. But somewhere along the way, my sense of humour has had a minor re-boot.
And what was it that breached the barriers – that made me titter like a school child?
This.
You have to admit it’s a pretty brilliant observation as each vignette was spot on. The difference is kids are funny, drunks are not. We are openly laughing at the kids just being kids. Inside we’re crying and torn about the drunks that resemble them. Sometimes you just have to let go and laugh.
yes, yes – you’re absolutely right. Watching it was therapeutic in its way. It gave me another perspective… and it gave me permission to laugh.
I think this is so true and I do think it is good you are able to laugh at it! Without the daily grind of dealing with an active alcoholic, we can sometimes get back to our own lives and move on. Laughter is medicine for soothing a soul. Hope you find more things to chuckle at!
Hi Joanne – glad you were able to laugh at it, too! It was strangely, frightfully, drolly accurate, wasn’t it?
tx